You're Not Dumb
You're just comparing yourself to the wrong image
“Comparison is the thief of joy.” Theodore Roosevelt
I don't know about you Reader but I have a habit of comparing myself to others.
It’s not obvious.
It’s not deliberate.
It’s a sneaky insecurity that flavours my life.
I think I’m the dumb one, the less attractive one, the quirky one.
I think they know more than me. They have more friends than me.
It’s a quiet sliver of deadly doubt.
It crept up on me again while I was creating my new course on attracting clients - like an unwanted visitor, a bad penny, a reminder to stay humble.
Do you know what I mean?
Maybe it was useful once.
Maybe it made you feel safe.
Maybe it was the unwanted gift from your parents.
It matters not where it came from; it just matters that its residue never leaves.
The good news?
You don’t have to get rid of it.
You don’t have to exercise it.
You don’t have to find ways around it.
You just have to keep noticing it, getting over it and realising that it’s not helping you and then letting it go.
Notice that you’re comparing your inside to what’s on the others’ outside.
What comparison is holding you back?
Love and activation, MamaJ 💫
p.s. Join me live on 2nd July as I launch my new course, Let Them Feel It - How to Attract Clients Without a Pitch
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p.p.s. All who join the launch will receive a copy of the ebook